A very smart friend of mine told me that once you become unavailable, it's amazing how much more you become an object of other's attraction. You know how it goes...you become all ga-ga over some guy and all of a sudden you are not acting like yourself and even when you talk with him, you say the stupidest shit. It's not who you are and you're not providing a real representation to this person about you, your personality and your general psyche. He does not look twice at you. Why though? What do you have to do? Honestly, I've noticed in the past few years, the more you portray and reflect indifference, the better off you are. It may be very hard for you to do, as it is for me, but its worth a shot. It is work. And it does take effort. But that's the way the game is played. And for all you people who say you don't play games, that in itself is a conscience decision and in essence, a game. Its just from my experience, but don't be so available, so attentive and therefore under appreciated. Do some blowing off, some ignoring, be more lackadaisical...you may just get the response you are looking for.